My ex Boyfriend is still haunting me even after all these years

I don't know where else to put it because I definitely want to keep it a secret from some people but....
My ex of many years and oh so long ago still haunts me, I do not know what to do to break this pattern of memories, I can go months without thinking about him and then all of the sudden he pops up in a dream and the dreams usually consist of 1 or 2 themes either I am running for my life from him, or he is telling me he is in love with me, then I get put into a slump of memories that I can't shake, things he's done, or said that make me questions his feelings against his actions,
For instance:
1. The time we waited in line to purchase a book and he wrapped his arms around me from behind and when I turned to look back at him he kissed my forehead,

2. The time that he use to break into my old apartment to watch me sleep

3.The times he sent me text messages when he awoke in the  morning (6:30 Am which sometimes sucked) to say good morning.

4. Then all the times he told me to turn to him when I had a problem or needed a shoulder.

But his actions said so much as well
For instance:
 1. When he cheated on me with a hideous girl that he didn't know more then a week.

2. When he got out of the hospital after a week and decided to go out with a girl (he claimed was a friend) instead of spending time with me.

3. When he told me that I meant nothing to him as well as other things along the same lines that I would rather not say.

How do you become un-haunted from someone you cared for so much that never cared for you?
I know I will never get closure, and if I ever saw him again I do not know if he would even look at me, much less say anything, I doubt even if I got the chance to talk to him and ask him why he did things he did, or said what he said I would get a true answer from him.

I know it may not make a lot of sense to people that someone from so long ago who is so far removed could still be an issue, or why someone would still care about someone who never cared for them, and wants nothing to do with them, it does happen though I am living proof

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